Wedding Traditions to Include in Your Elopement
If you’re planning to elope but still want a slice of wedding tradition, you’re in luck—those timeless customs can totally fit into your intimate celebration. Here are seven ways to add a little “classic wedding” magic to your elopement.
First up, vows are an absolute must for many couples, even those who skip the big ceremony. Whether you’re saying something traditional or writing your own heartfelt words, vows help capture your love story. If you’re getting hitched at a courthouse, you can even use the standard vows from the officiant, but feel free to sprinkle in personal touches. It's your day—make it memorable!
Next, if you’re missing the feel of a wedding party, why not have your closest people by your side? You don’t need a massive bridal crew, just a few key players, whether that’s your best friends or family. This is especially sweet for smaller, more intimate elopements, where a tight-knit wedding party is just the right touch.
Walking down the aisle might seem like a distant dream in an elopement, but don’t rule it out! You can totally create your own aisle—think beach paths, flower petals, or even a scenic mountain trail. And hey, if you want someone to walk you down the aisle, whether it’s Dad or a close friend, go for it! This moment adds a personal flair to your grand entrance.
For a more intimate feel, first looks are gaining popularity, even with elopements. This tradition—where the couple sees each other for the first time before the ceremony—adds a special moment before you tie the knot. Imagine the quiet excitement of locking eyes with your partner in a beautiful, private setting.
If you’re leaning into tradition but want to keep things modern, you can easily incorporate a wedding dress or a sleek suit. There’s no “right” way to dress for your elopement. Whether you choose a stunning gown or something more laid-back, it’s all about feeling fabulous. Some couples even swap outfits midway for extra fun.
Rings are another classic wedding symbol that can’t be missed. A simple exchange of rings—whether at a mountaintop or by a quiet lake—adds a ceremonial feel to your day. These little symbols of commitment are an essential part of wedding traditions, and yes, they can absolutely make their way into your elopement.
Lastly, consider a celebratory toast—whether it’s champagne or your favorite cocktail, a toast after the ceremony can mark the start of your next adventure. Whether shared privately with your partner or with a few close friends, raising a glass is the perfect way to honor your new chapter together.
In conclusion, you can have all the fun and heart of a traditional wedding without the massive guest list or overwhelming planning. With these little traditions sprinkled in, your elopement can be every bit as special—and a little bit cheekier!