Your Ultimate Elopement Checklist
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Not a fan of traditional weddings? An elopement is your best bet! With an elopement, you don’t have to worry about finding a huge venue or sending out hundreds of invitations. And the best part is you and your partner get to call all the shots!
But, elopements still do require some preparation - especially if you’re doing a destination elopement and/or considering it your legal wedding. Here is a checklist to help you make your elopement as stress-ful and easy as possible!
Paperwork & Logistics
If your elopement is your legal wedding, you’ll need to arrange a marriage license. Each state and country have different requirements so make sure to check with the state and country where you’re eloping to ensure everything is buttoned up legally!
For example, some states only require a witness so you can ask a friend or family member to be at your elopement to be your witness. Other states require an officiant for elopements. And if required, make sure to make an appointment at the clerk’s office prior to your elopement.
Accommodations and Travel
Most people associate elopements with City Hall but you can elope in your favorite city or right in your backyard! Finalizing a location is the big first step in planning your elopement. Planning an elopement is almost like planning a big trip where you make reservations for accommodations as well as any restaurants or activities.
And, be sure your desired elopement location allows weddings. Permit fees vary depending on venues and locations so be sure to follow the correct requirements. Many public parks, for example, require permits for a legal ceremony.
Vendors
Although it’s not a traditional wedding, vendors are still a part of an elopement. You’ll most likely want a photographer or a chef/caterer for a celebratory meal. Think about what vendors are important to you - whether that’s an officiant, photographer, videographer, caterer, musician, florist, etc. - and focus on those for your elopement.
Even for an elopement, a photographer and/or videographer, musician or DJ, hair and makeup, and florist are great to have as part of your big day.
Post-Elopement
Eloping in secret? You’ll now want to tell your friends and family! Consider sending out a photo announcement with one of your wedding photos or make a website to tell your story and why you chose to elope.
While you don’t have to, you can still create a gift registry before or after your elopement so friends and family can give gifts!
PS - some states or countries require you to make a formal wedding announcement or send in documentation for a marriage license.
Planning an elopement? Let us know in the comments!