Your Guide to Planning an Elopment

Trudy &’s Alec’s Elopement at Mill Pond Estate

Thinking about ditching a traditional wedding for something more intimate and, more often than not, less headache-inducing? Eloping might just be your ticket to matrimonial bliss without the stress. But before you grab your partner and run off into the sunset, let's chat about the do's and don'ts to ensure your elopement is as dreamy as you envision.

Do: Plan Ahead

Spontaneity is romantic, but a little planning goes a long way. Research your desired location, understand the legal requirements, and book any necessary vendors in advance. This ensures your day runs smoothly and you avoid any "oops" moments. 

Don't: Forget the Legalities

Marriage laws vary by location. Some places have residency requirements or specific documentation needs. Ensure you have all the necessary paperwork and understand the legal steps to make your union official. ​

Do: Hire a Photographer

Just because you're eloping doesn't mean you shouldn't capture the moment. A professional photographer can document your special day, allowing you to share the memories with loved ones later. ​

Don't: Neglect to Inform Close Family and Friends

While eloping is about the two of you, consider informing your immediate family and close friends either before or shortly after the ceremony. This can help prevent hurt feelings and keep relationships intact. ​

Do: Celebrate Afterwards

Just because you eloped doesn't mean you can't celebrate with others later. Consider hosting a post-elopement party or reception to include those who weren't present at the ceremony. 

Don't: Feel Obligated to Follow Traditions

Eloping gives you the freedom to create a day that reflects your relationship. Feel free to forgo traditional elements that don't resonate with you. ​

Do: Budget Wisely

While eloping can be more cost-effective than a traditional wedding, expenses can add up. Plan your budget carefully, considering travel, attire, vendors, and any post-elopement celebrations. 

Don't: Assume Vendors Will Offer Lower Prices

Some vendors might offer special pricing for elopements, but don't assume this is always the case. Be upfront about your plans and negotiate accordingly. ​

Do: Personalize Your Ceremony

Make your elopement uniquely yours. Incorporate personal vows, meaningful locations, or special rituals that reflect your relationship. 

Don't: Forget to Enjoy the Moment

Amidst the planning and excitement, take time to savor the experience. After all, this day is about celebrating your love and commitment to each other. 

Eloping can be a beautiful and intimate way to begin your married life together. By keeping these do's and don'ts in mind, you can ensure your elopement is everything you dream of and more.